Da var nyheten ute

March 21, 2019

Herregud, det har vœrt så vanskelig å holde dette hemmelig. Det gikk relativt greit for folk jeg aldri så, men både jobben og jentene på stallen fikk vite det kjempetidlig. Jeg har vœrt så uendelig dårlig i mange uker og har enda ikke holdt ut en hel uke på jobben uten fravœr. Det var oppkast fra morgen til kveld, helt ut av det blå, og opptil flere ganger skjedde det når jeg var ute blandt folk. Det er vanskelig å forklare men kroppen ga meg ikke nok tid til å fordøye hvor dårlig jeg var, så jeg kunne sette meg i bilen eller gå tur med Mumford også plutselig kastet jeg opp. Jeg har aldri vœrt borti lignende og håper jeg aldri kjenner på dette igjen. Jeg sverget til høyere makter at jeg aldri i mitt liv kom igjen til å bli gravid, og fattet overhodet ikke hvordan kvinner kunne gå igjennom dette flere ganger.

Det var derfor jeg nevnte tvillinger ganske tidlig, både til Howie og de på jobben. I mine øyne var det eneste forklaringen på hvorfor jeg var som jeg var. Jeg sa det til og med på første ultralyd, og et minutt senere viste det seg at jeg hadde rett.

Jeg gråt. Herregud som jeg gråt.

Selv om jeg følte det på meg, ble jeg like sjokkert som både jordmor og Howie. Som forøvrig satt og glana i skjermen med to store tinntallerkner. Helt til han så på meg og sa – Du hadde rett hele tiden.

Da vi satt ute på ventevœrelse var det tanker jeg ikke husker. Vi bare satt der med bilde av to fostre og kikket rundt på resten av gjengen som kun hadde ét bilde i hånden. Og der satt vi med en remse med ti bilder, og en veldig fin forklaring på min kvalme… Da vi kom inn igjen til jordmor fikk vi beskjed om å reise på et nytt sykehus i nœrheten hvor de spesialiserer seg på multiples, og fikk ny time en uke senere. Deretter kom det mye info på tabletter jeg måtte da, at jeg måtte ringe sykehuset neste gang jeg var dårlig og hvor mye vann jeg måtte drikke. Resten fikk Howie med seg, for da forsvant all sunn fornuft og jeg satt der og bare kikket i veggen, og så for meg selv rusle rundt i Troon med sånn dobbel vogn…

Og nå har vi vœrt på enda en ultralyd, bilder og målinger har blitt sent til Edinburgh med positive resultater og graviditeten er offentliggjort, selv om det er et risikosvangerskap. Jeg har blitt mye bedre, og det er i dag 7 dager siden jeg kastet opp sist. Jeg rir fortsatt de dagene jeg klarer, men matlysten er på bunn. Jeg blir veldig fort sliten og er kald hele tiden. Ellers har vi det veldig bra <3


Vietnam: Phu Quoc

January 31, 2019

My Vietnam blog posts are coming to an end, and it will all be a blurry memory soon. We loved this holiday so much and Phu Quoc was the place I was most looking forward to see. All the photos looked ace and the weather forecast said 30 ++ degrees. After wearing 4 layers and a scarf prior to this, I was buzzing to spend our last 9 night on this island.

Sadly, the island itself was very disappointing. It was so much rubbish everywhere and just one big main road with small shops dotted around. It really didn’t have a town as such, and it was all a bit of a let down. Luckily our hotels, Green Bay and Dusit Princess were just top notch, and we ended up eating there every night. I know I know, you just never do that, but I refused to hire a scooter so we couldn’t really get anywhere.

Green Bay Resort was our home for the first 5 nights, and with an upgrade (!) it was the most impressive room/hotel ever. We were literally on the beach, in a private bungalow, with showers both inside and outside, an outside bathtub and a view to die for.

The pool was 2 minutes away, so when our feet got sandy, we knew where to go 🙂

We had Pho and Crème brûlée for breakfast, before we grabbed a sunbed each and stayed out for hours, reading books and learning Norwegian. Howie really got the hang of it after a few days, but we haven’t practiced since… Why is everything so much easier when you’re away on holiday?

Our second plaza (can I call it that?) was Dusit Princess, a hotel nearer to “town”. It was very different to the quiet Green Bay but nevertheless great. It had more people, a pool bar, loads of beach bars and more restaurants. It was great and just what we needed after being in the jungle for several nights.

Now, that was the end of our lovely fairytale and honeymoon. It was well worth the wait and I´m glad I got to see so much of Vietnam. I wished we could have visited Hoi Chi Min and Sapa as well, but 14 days were just too short for that <3 I


Vietnam: Hoi An

January 26, 2019

I changed my mind regarding these honeymoon blog posts, and will now dedicate this post to Hoi An alone. I transferred all the photos yesterday and didn’t realise how many there were… Whoops..

After another night in Hanoi we flew to Danang and drove 45 minutes to Hoi An. It was getting a bit dark when we arrived at so we quickly checked in and walked out to find somewhere to eat. The receptionist gave us a map with loads of recommendations but we got completely lost finding the one we were after. We stopped at a place along the way where we saw a few locals, decided to trust them and sat down. The food was delicious and with a beer each we truly felt more at home. It felt so quiet compared to Hanoi and the temperature was a lot warmer.

We walked further and saw a few lanterns in one of the streets. We had reached the famous old town and it was sooo pretty

I have seen a few cities, lived in 5 countries and thought I knew what to expect, but it was even nicer than the photos make out. The old town is closed to all car traffic making it pedestrian friendly, and every shop has hanging lanterns outside, with many different colours being displayed, giving the streets a real wow factor as soon as you set foot into the ancient trading hub. The canal was filled with wooden boats and we took a short trip on our first night. I felt extremely happy and couldn’t get enough of it.

And so it continues. We ate for a whole football team, drank beer and so much coffee that I couldn’t sleep. I had a manicure, pedicure, massages and face peeling. We both bought tailored outfits and wished we could stay there for much longer.

Life with Rebel

Transitions transitions

January 24, 2019

I have a weekly plan for me and Rebel. After his ‘arthritis winter holiday’ which included 3 to 4 days off a week, we are now back at two days off a week – mainly Tuesdays and Thursdays. The other days are for flatwork x 2, hack, lunging and grid work.

After I came back from my hols I realized Rebels got a beautiful canter, if _he_ can decide the tempo. He was not very willing to half halt or slow down, which is kind of important. I decided to change the bit to a Wilkie so I could use a lighter hand and practice half halt in canter. The first proper day I rode for over an hour, starting with trot, walk, halt over and over again.

I put poles out in every corner, squishing him into it and cantered around the whole school. No 20 meter circles at all. It became very obvious he had to slow down to make the corner and I praised him every time he did so. Then I tried for several times asking for a half halt, where he mainly went into an rushed trot. Okey, note to self; more leg before hand.

And I tried over and over again. Sometimes I took 10 strides before I slowed down, which was rewarded with a pat, loose reins and loads of good words. Then he would speed up again and I would repeat myself. I finished that session with 2 very quick half halts on each rein and was so pleased with how he went. It took a while but he sort of figured out what I wanted.

The next time repeated myself with all the transitions and half halt in canter. It came back to him quickly and when the canter was so slow and balanced.

I used my voiced asking for trot. And he rushed. Over and over again.

Back to walk, trot and canter…

I wonder how many times he rushed – must have been over 30. But just when you think it’s all going to hell you have one beautiful transition to make up for it.

I will continue my “transitions journey” on Saturday. My goal is to do them with his head super low, really relaxed, and only by using my voice 😅


Vietnam: Hanoi and Ha Long Bay

January 22, 2019

Hello everyone. I have been itching to write about Vietnam since I stepped out of the first plane in Hanoi. I decided not to bring my laptop, and although I think that was the right decision, I wish I could update you more from day one. Instead, I have bombarded Instagram and feel sorry for those who follow me for any other reasons, such as horse and dog photos. I went from over 600 followers to less then 590 in a few days. The more I posted more people pressed unfollowed. I should probably take that as a hint but when I can’t write on my blog, Instagram is the way forward.

I have decided to split this into 2 different posts. Hanoi + Ha Long Bay and Hoi An + Phu Quoc. I promise to be 100% honest with you, as there were a few disappointments along the way. Having said that I’m over the moon we chose Vietnam and that we decided to see as much as we could in the space of 16 days!

The flight journey took 11 hours from Heathrow to Hanoi. I was being stingy and turned down the business class when Howie mentioned that a few months earlier. In my head, I would rather stay longer and see more instead of having more leg room while drinking champagne. Now that was mistake no. 1! I was grumpy af when it took 6 hours between the meals with no information about those pot noodles being served to random passengers. The service was poor and I was starving. I may have been a drama queen but when you’re on your honeymoon – you want a little bit extra. So lesson learned: we are definitely flying business class for our next honeymoon.

It rained when we landed at 5 in the morning. Our hotel had someone picking us up from the airport and off we drove into the most chaotic city I have ever seen. We checked in to a beautiful hotel JM Marvel and decided to explore our area. I honestly thought I was not going to make it back to the hotel. There were hundreds of traffic lights in Hanoi but they mean nothing, and the worst thing you can do is run while crossing the streets. Later we learned you have to cross the roads very slowly so the drivers can spot and avoid you.

After one night we drove all the way to the coast for a two night cruise ship Au Co trip around Ha Long Bay. I have seen photos of it but you have to be there to understand its beauty. You can’t get enough of it. All the islands, the water, the nature – it makes you feel very less important, and appreciate time a lot more. If all that makes sense.

The cruise had around 50 to 60 passengers in total and with all the amazing activities and meals it gave us a chance to talk to most of them. I felt like I was traveling, making new friends I knew I would never see again.

We walked in caves, saw the most bizarre floating fishing village where people pretty much live and work their entire lives on the water. Until 2012 they had never set foot on land. They were born and they died in the village. Now the children and their grandparents live on land, while the parents are working in the fishing village. They preferred that lifestyle and chose to go back to the sea.

We went cycling around Cat Ba Island where Au Co had purchased an area of farming land damaged after heavy rainfall a few years ago. It employs the local villages to farm the land 2 hours a day, one in the morning and one in the evening. Through this co-operative development and investment it means Au Co is the only cruise from the Halong Bay region to visit Cat Ba Island and the central village. Win win! Most of the food we ate was from there too, all organic and probably the best food I have ever tasted in my whole life. I say that a lot but god it was sooo tasty.

Halong Bay exceeded all expectations. I can not recommend our cruise enough. The service truly was outstanding and the activities very entertaining. I think we had two hours a day where there was nothing going on – which we all enjoyed.  We loved every minute of it and wish we could back in the summer, when the weather is a bit warmer.

Back to Hanoi

We drove back to the capital for New Year’s Eve and checked into another hotel. We thought this was a good idea at the time, but after staying at both JM Marvel and AU CO my expectations were running high. The lobby was out of date and the room was OK. Had I all of a sudden turned into a snob? If someone gave me that room whilst traveling I would have been over the moon – comfy bed, massive room, clean all over. But fast forward ten more years I just wanted a little bit more. Fair to say I realized I’m a 4 star and above kind of girl and a self declared snob. (I told you I was being honest). Having said this – the staff were once again exceptional. So helpful and kind.

Another silly mistake we made was not to book a restaurant for New Year’s Eve. Hanoi has zillion restaurants near by, if you fancy eating on the pavement from plates that have been cleaned in the gutters with rain water and exhausts. I look at myself as semi well traveled and street food is the way forward, but that was just a step too far. So we ate at the hotel and walked into town to see the crowd celebrating the last few hours of 2018. And trust me on this one – I have never ever seen gridlock like it. The pavement was no longer for people walking but for parking your scooter. Streets were closed due to the party and everyone trying to get somewhere. It all came to a stand still – Including us – who were shuffling along hoping it would take us somewhere cool.

I wasn’t particularly keen on standing around in a mass of thousands and thousands of people, listening to random Vietnamese pop stars. Although it was a friendly and carnival atmosphere, I just wasn’t feeling it, so I dragged Howie away from the buzz and the carnage and we saw in the new year back in our hotel. We did get to see some fireworks from the room and watched the TV coverage. Happy new year we said – tomorrow we’re going to Hoi An.

Life with Rebel

Personal best

October 20, 2018

I’m so happy I could cry. Just came home from Muirmill Equestrian Centre after our first British Dressage test in a very, very long time. We have been battling the 60% mark since I did my first test 2 years ago, and although I have moved up the levels, the marks always stayed the same. This has always been the issue in eventing, as other riders are sometimes at 80%. I never stand a chance. 

So after our ‘break through’ on Monday, I wanted to give it another go and entered Prelim 15 today. Not only did I do the best test to date but I got a flipping 67.4% and a 5th place out of 23 riders. What an achievement for us 😍 I got some lovely comments, (which has been rare in the past), saying it was quietly ridden, beautiful test and a willing horse. Now I just need to make him work a bit more over his back for a higher mark – which I completely agree with! 

Now, I once said I would buy a dressage saddle if I ever get over 70% and I’m getting a little stressed out. I may have to move up the levels to keep those costs down…

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